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Rewarding Wednesdays :: Part II

We ended last week with what motivated me to begin modifying my lifestyle to be healthier. This week we’ll cover what immediately became my most pressing change.

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Obviously, with my vocation, I sit a lot throughout the day. My biggest hindrance for the past decade has been my occupation: sitting at the sewing machines for up to 18hrs a day. Not good. The sedentary aspect of my job was unfortunately coupled with my never being active growing up. I didn’t play sports, take dance, or maintain an active hobby as a child.. and those habits followed me straight into adulthood. I didn’t know what it meant to have a truly active lifestyle. I already felt “behind”.



Enter EXERCISE. This has, undoubtedly, been my biggest change.

When I began working out, I started with P90X. You may know this program to be extreme but really, it’s just old-school moves with lots of repetitions. It’s totally worked for me. During my first round of P90X, I got the itch to try something else. I began a c25k (couch to 5k- Google it) and at the urging of a dear friend, went to a specialized running store to be fitted for my first pair of true running shoes- NOT those generic Nike’s that you think fit your foot nicely at Dicks.


I highly recommend going to a running store: they’ll analyze your gait, measure both your feet, consider any past injuries, fit you for custom arch supports, and recommend shoes just for your feet. (I endured a week-long trip to Disney with plantar fasciitis several years ago that would have been bearable with shoes tailored to my needs). They have totally been worth the investment because I’m not frustrated nearly as much as I was with my previous generic Nikes. Less frustration = more success. When my feet would tire with those old tennies, I always thought it was simply because I was out of shape. Not true! Those generic shoes were just not helping my foot issues, so my feet tired pretty fast. Shoes can make all the difference. And if your feet are feeling good, your legs generally will as well. Please note: I’m not bashing Nike- they have great products. I’m just suggesting that a custom-fit shoe is best:) There are several brands to choose from and you’ll likely become brand-loyal once you try them all on your feet.

 

You don’t have to be into running to buy shoes from a running store, either. If you’re out of shape, go walk a couple miles around your local running track and see how sore your feet are afterward. Specialized tennies won’t prevent foot aches and pains, but they’ll definitely keep your tootsies way more comfortable for longer periods of time. It really makes sense.. we do everything with our feet; they’re the core of our mobility. I’m totally sold out for having the most comfortable anything, haha! When I began exercising, I was so uncomfortable and had such little endurance that, anything that improved my success – anything that helped me get “where” I was headed – was worth it to me.

 

Because I have led a pretty sedentary lifestyle up til now, I was most interested in strengthening my core. Your core is the center of your body- where the bulk of your strength should be. The stomach, abs, thighs, glutes and back. There are tons of exercises you can do at home- you don’t absolutely have to have a gym or special equipment. If you’d like ideas, shoot me an email. You can also look online for core exercises. Some of my favorite workouts are 20-minute cardio videos on YouTube.

 

When you’re overweight and are first starting out with an exercise plan, nothing feels right. Everything tires you and it can be so darn frustrating. I get that. My hubbie has always been a runner and encouraged me to try running in a cemetery: no traffic, occasional hills, but mainly no traffic. On one particular day, our 13yo daughter joined me (she’s always been hugely into fitness and exercise) and she was so excited about being my encouragement. I had installed a C25K app on my phone that gave voice prompts for when to walk, when to run. Since I had just begun learning to run (isn’t it crazy that we have to teach our bodies to run?), I was walking way more than running. I could barely run for 30 seconds straight. I remember Anna Kate saying, “Come on, Mom, you can do this, just 10 more seconds!” or “Mom, you’re almost there, push through, you’ve got this!”. What she couldn’t feel was the crazy I-can’t-move-another-inch-burning in my calves, and she didn’t know what it was like to experience the I’ve-had-two-babies-and-my-bladder’s-not-what-it-used-to-be trickle… if you get my drift. I was extremely frustrated with my body’s inability to do what I wanted to do. I was DONE. TOAST. OVER it all!! I pitched a fit in the middle of the cemetery and literally plopped into my car, headed home, and cried the rest of the night. I had a homegrown pity party that night and felt so sorry for my ridiculous fat self. The next day, I thanked Anna Kate profusely for believing in me (when I didn’t believe in myself) and hugged her for as long as she’d let me.

 

We laugh hysterically about it now, but I never want to go back to that day. It sucked eggs. However, I now use that day as a reference for how far I’ve come. My running is still not all that great- I struggle with stamina and strength but here’s the deal: I’m trying. I get out there and move. I still have another 20-30 pounds until I hit “maintenance mode” and while I won’t have to work out like a beast every.single.day, I’ll still have to move. Every day. It can be walking, hiking at your local park, whatever.

 

I was so excited on Black Friday last year. As far as women go, I’m not a big shopper (the hubs would say I can still spend money with the best of ‘em lol). But my teenagers and their friends wanted to go immerse themselves in the midnight craziness. I should also tell you that our kids are the bomb-diggity. They’re 13 and 16, and have the best sense of humor. Absolutely hilarious and we actually like spending time with them. Andrew, especially, keeps us in stitches for the better part of his waking hours. He’s so dry and subtle, if you blink, you could miss it. Sorry, had to say all that!! Back to Black Friday. So, we all ventured out to the big box chains and mostly people-watched. But.. on the back aisle at Target – on clearance – I found a weighted jump rope. Who knew this little sucker could bring me so much instant gratification?! The jump rope was my big Black Friday purchase and she’s been so good to us:) We had lots of fun that night, too!! On days that it’s rainy outside and I don’t feel like suiting up in plastic/vinyl rainproof whatever, I’ll jump for a bit in the garage. Super easy and it’s great cardio.

 

When I started working out I used P90X, which is a video series that I could do at home. I liked the idea of having privacy while I was still uncomfortable in my own skin. The only drawback was not having a friend to work out with. Most of our friends work out at the local YMCA and I would highly recommend that regardless of where you work out, that you find someone else to be accountable. It really helps to have a friend (or spouse) who will call you out and be real with you when you miss a day. Or two or three. Don’t get upset with that friend when she reminds you of what you should be doing- and if she’s not holding you accountable, replace her. This is your life, your health. Anyone can stay fat.. If getting fit were easy, everyone would be doing it:)

 

Here are some important points about exercise and losing weight:

* Be consistent. If you plan to work out 3x/wk, then work out 3x/wk. Whatever your plan, stick to it.

* Find an accountability partner

* If you’re exercising to lose weight, you need both cardio and strength-training workouts. Get that heart rate  UP!

 

Most of us are encouraged when we see results, so I’ll share a little of mine with you. I changed my life (I say this in all seriousness) on August 25th, 2011 and now have six months under my belt. In the grand scheme of things, that’s not a lot of time. But I’ve seen HUGE results since then. I’ve dropped 6 clothing sizes and 45 pounds so far. I took “before” photos and it makes me sad to look back at them and know that I lived like that:(  Be sure you take waist/chest/hip measurements; I think those are even more telling than what the scale says.. One of the most exciting things is that when I dropped 3 pant sizes, I had to get a new pair of jeans. I’ve dropped another 3 sizes since, and those jeans literally fall off my hips now. LOVE that. You can find a little motivational inspiration on my Healthier Living board on Pinterest.

 

Next week, I’ll chat about food. Be forewarned, you will NOT like the next post because it’s gonna step ALL over your toes. Just sayin’. It will even hurt my feelings to write it!! I appreciate everyone’s comments, texts, emails, etc so much. I take the good with the bad and we’re all a work in progress. Hope this helps you in some small way:)

 

Love you guys,

 

Linda Pilcher - This is a mother who is so very proud of her daughter. I was amazed at how sleek you looked last month!!! Keep it up darling, you deserve all the happiness this change has given you.

Love you so much,
MomMarch 23, 2012 – 8:59 am

Rewarding Wednesdays launch :: It’s a new day :: Part I

So, after much debate (mostly with myself), I’ve decided to publish my weight-loss journey. This is my story about how I got motivated to go from fat to fit.. and the motivation that keeps me there. There are so many facets to changing one’s lifestyle; join me here each Wednesday and I’ll chat about what’s working for me. I would love to hear your story and any feedback you’d like to send:)


Let’s start with a disclaimer. There’s a good chance this series is gonna hurt your feelings. You probably won’t like what I have to say, unless you’re ready and willing to make a lifestyle change. This will not be a “warm and fuzzy” blog series, so if the thought of losing weight is upsetting to you, I would recommend you leave this page now. Most of us have an emotional connection with food. We are not flawed people because we’re overweight. As women, most of us who are overweight simply have not put ourselves first in our lives. We take care of our families, friends, and place ourselves last on our “to do” lists. If you stick with me over the next couple months, I ask that you be open and real about “where” you are. This series is not about how to drop 100 pounds in 30 days, or how to remain a size 2 forever. This is real life.. Let’s be honest and realistic with ourselves about our health. I’m not talking about how to maintain 4% body fat here.. nope, quite the contrary. Healthy can be curvy:)

If you’re losing weight or need to, your weight loss goals and how you make that happen will be different from mine.

 This is my story about how I became motivated to live healthier and what has worked for me.

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 I’m sorta tall. 5’8″ to be exact. Not really giant-esque, but I have always been the tallest among my friends.

“Oh, you carry your weight so well.”

I’ve been drinking that Kool-Aid my entire adult life. Totally bought into the lie. Friends and family have been feeding me that garbage forever. And I believed them.

Like most of us, my life is full of enablers. I was doing nothing to live a healthy lifestyle and those around me were okay with that. Friends didn’t want to hurt my feelings, so they wouldn’t say anything. And the hubs.. a total Southern gentleman, has NEVER once in our 20yrs together said anything derogatory about my appearance. Our families live out of state so when we visit, it’s out to the restaurants we go to celebrate being together. Combined, the hubs and I typically work 100+hrs/week so the fast food drive-thru was often too convenient.

What do all these things have in common? They are excuses for not taking control of my health sooner. Like most of us, my bad eating habits were also dominated by circumstances outside of my control. Growing my business, moving out of state three times in the past nine years, experiencing recession-induced job loss in two of those states, and having to learn my way around new communities all contributed to these bad habits. Life was so busy, almost frantic, that I had forgotten the ME in my very own life. I was consumed with ensuring our kids were fitting in, finding a worthwhile church home, supporting the hubs in his career, and managing my own that I forgot about myself. Typical suburban mom, eh?


I have these amazing friends from my childhood and we get together every summer for Girls Week. Collectively, we’ve experienced about any kind of life change you can imagine. One friend, in particular, unexpectedly lost her husband a few years ago. Two weeks later, she discovered she was pregnant with their third child. I have watched her blossom into one of the best moms I know. As we laid under umbrellas in Myrtle Beach last summer, she talked about how she HAS to take care of herself, HAS to remain as healthy as is within her control: she’s all her girls have. That hurt. Big time. Who am I to take this one and only life God gave me for granted?! The ridiculousness of my overweight-ness immediately hit me. It’s all about quality of life:)

 

I returned home from that week with conversations playing in the back of my head like your favorite song. Almost as if I were going through the motions, I began an exercise routine.. and I didn’t tell anyone. Not even my husband. I let it go for a few weeks but it quickly became obvious: since I was working out like a dog, I HAD to change my eating habits, right? I mean, why work out like crazy if I don’t eat better? I began bringing healthier things home from the grocery store and our meals slowly became better for us. It’s notable that I didn’t join a gym or a workout group. As for dietary needs, I personally have no food allergies nor, am I vegan. If you do – or are- your needs will obviously be different than mine.


The whole weight loss thing is simple math. You’re fat because you consume more calories than you use. To lose the fat, you use more calories than you consume. In order to have a productive, sustainable weight loss plan, you need to change both your eating and activity habits. Weight loss is not sustainable when you’re drinking SlimFast shakes 3x/day.. that is not real life.

So what’s been the biggest change I’ve made to my lifestyle? I’ll talk about it next Wednesday. It won’t be hard to guess;) I’ll chat about what it’s been like for me to move from the sewing table to the pavement.

Hope you guys are having a super week!
Steph

 

Goings-on

Howdy, peeps. Forgive my inattention to the blog.. it’s really something I should schedule with myself. Maybe a weekly corporate meeting between myself, WordPress, and a cup of Starbucks Pike Place roast should be in the works ;)

Personally, this is really my busiest time of year. Both our kids are playing club soccer, our eldest has a new job, the hubs travels extensively, and we have school sports. We’ve been nursing our 3rd child, Noah- our yellow lab- lately. This crazy tumor began growing on his abdomen a couple years ago and it’s gotten really large. Vets have told us there’s nothing we can do about it, but it’s really hard to see him struggling with this. We found “No” at a breeder in Mississippi back in 2004 and have learned these tumors are common amongst labrador retrievers. If you know anything about them, send me a shout-out. I would love to hear your story:)

Isn’t he handsome? You can see the tumor; this was taken last summer so it’s even bigger now. Breaks my heart.


I mentioned on the ggC Facebook page that I’ve recently lost a decent amount of weight and would be doing a blog post about it. Someone asked what makes me qualified to post such info. My reply? Uh, I’ve actually lost the weight?! Haha! I think this is something most of us as women struggle with; I’ll shed some light on what’s worked for me. However, instead of sharing it all in one post, I’ll be doing it weekly, giving you one “change” or tip each week. Look for the “Rewarding Wednesdays” category here on the blog, starting February 15th.



I thought you might like an idea of upcoming Spring ’12 styles and I will tell you, the girls’ outfits are ALL sleeveless dresses. I know, too cute. And versatile, yes? They’ll be adorable with long-sleeved tees and funky tights underneath in cooler months and wearable all.year.long. I’m so stoked. And the boys, you ask? Theirs will be available after the girls, but you’re gonna have to wait for a peek at what’s coming for them. Think ultra-hip, vintage, with a little preppy thrown in. I’ll be sharing on the ggC Facebook page and here on the blog when everything is about to be unveiled. Remember, ALL designs will be available for immediate shipment, NO more waiting!! Woo to the hoo!!


Love you guys!
Steph

Easiest non-sewist tutorial ever

You guys will love the simplicity of this little tutorial. It’s truly the.easiest.tutorial.ever. And the best part? It’s perfect for all you non-sewists:)  Ok, you will need a needle and thread. I bought a cute sweater from Target.. it has great bones but I didn’t like the buttons they used. You’ll see.. they were a bit too serious for my taste :) So I took them off and sewed new ones on. Told ya this is gonna be easy!

 

Let’s get started.

 

Supplies you’ll need:

 

the above-mentioned needle and thread

new  buttons (be sure you have enough- my sweater had 9 buttonholes so I needed 9 buttons)

scissors/snips

sweater or other garment to restyle

 

Here’s the sweater I used

I really do like the buttons that came on the sweater. They have a cute vintagey-appeal that will be perfect for another project.

You want to remove these buttons with small pointed scissors. I use surgeon’s snips, as they cut really close and are super-precise.

Gather your buttons. You can see I made custom buttons (but of course, eh?) using fabric scraps. You can buy these cover buttons at Hobby Lobby, Joann, maybe even Walmart. They come with a little kit and are inexpensive. I think a pack of 4 is around $3.

These colors look great against the gray sweater :)

You’ll need matching thread for your buttons. If you’re not a seamstress, you can pick up one of those little $1 emergency sewing kits at the dollar store.

This is where I throw everything into my “catchall” tote and do my hand sewing in the carpool line! It took me all of about 10 minutes to sew these buttons onto the sweater. It actually took longer to decide where I wanted each of them lol.

And here’s the finished product. Cute, huh? Definitely worth the re-do!!

And because I know you guys will ask, the yellow tee is also from Target.

Just a note about your button size and buttonholes. You may want to take the garment or buttons you’ve removed to the store if you buy new ones, just so you’re sure to get the same size. I totally forgot about needing the buttons to actually fit inside the buttonholes lol! So my buttons were about twice the diameter of their holes.. oops! I knew I would want to button the middle ones (see photo) so instead of making smaller buttons, I extended the length of my buttonholes.. I know, easy for a seamstress to do. If you find yourself in a pickle, get a local seamstress friend to help you out.. it’ll take her all of about 5 minutes :)

 

I’ll have some thoughts and more details about the upcoming changes to ggC in the next year in an upcoming post.

 

Hope you guys are enjoying the CHRISTmas holidays!!

 

Hugs,

sharing the handmade love

Last month the hubs and I took a weekend trip to Wilmington, NC. It was a spur-of-the-moment thing and we are blessed with a fabulous “village” to care for the kids, pups, and handle those things that need to be handled when you’re out of town. The weather was crazy-cold so our plans to be at the beach most of the visit were instead redirected to downtown Wilmington and the riverfront. I have recently taken up running so it was a cool coincidence that Wilmington’s Beach 2 Battleship Triathlon was also in town that weekend.





Downtown Wilmington has a really cool vibe and being there amongst the marathon action was pretty inspiring. The spectators and their signs were awesome!! Of course, we didn’t know any of the contestants, but I felt this huge sense of pride for each of them as they passed in front of us. What an amazing accomplishment..








We got to the see the winner cross the finish line. I still can’t believe he finished an ENTIRE triathlon in such little time.





Wilmington has great restaurants, clubs, coffee shops and we passed this chain link fence with keys hanging all over it. There was no sign or info posted about it so we Googled it when we got back to the hotel.





Knitted “love” someone hung on the fence

An estimated 30,000 keys are hanging on the fence




If you’re a crafty online shop owner, you’re probably aware of an awesome grassroots initiative called Link with Love. For the rest of you, go check it out. Link with Love is a campaign to educate consumers on the intellectual property of the world wide web. What they’re doing over there is huge! If you have a website/blog, grab a button from their blog and help educate your viewers.




I am so addicted. Pinterest is my new love. Sigh. Forget Facebook and Twitter.. Pinterest, you have my heart. If you’re not a Pinner, you can request an invite to get started. It’s basically an online bookmarking tool so if you’re more of a visual person (like me!), then you’ll love it. I have created a Christmas board containing some fun items. There are decorating ideas, recipes, handmade gifts (what everyone on my list is getting this year!). Check it out!





Again, let me know if you need an invite and I’ll send you one:)


Hope you guys are having a great week!
Hugs,